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By Victoria Polmatier | 5:29 PM PST, Thu January 20, 2022
Grandmother and Grandson

Is it a coincidence?
I don’t think so

I could make a playlist
first your song
then two of his -
songs of remembrance

the two of you
sitting there 
in heaven
sending us 
beams of love

just like I saw
in your eyes
at the end
with that angelic smile
telling me forever

your love is endless

And if I were to make that playlist, here it is. The first three songs played in a row. The other soon after and only reinforced the feeling of them being right there.

  • Wagon Wheel by Old Crow Medicine Show (One of Mom’s favorites, though she argued for a different version)
  • Landslide by Fleetwood Mac (A son that played after my son died and always made me cry)
  • Hallelujah by Jason Castro (One of my son’s favorite songs, he had three versions in a playlist of his.)
  • I Will Remember by Sarah MacLachlan

By Victoria Polmatier on August 29, 2019.

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Exported from Medium on January 2, 2022.

Photo by Amber Clark (Used by permission)

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I've been writing blogs on the internet since 2007. Like my life, my words have wandered from Wisdom or Life Lessons and Wellness, to Gardening and Aquaponics. After my son’s death by suicide in 2016, Poetry became a big piece of my world as I tried to make sense of the tragedy of his death.

In truth, his death took me into my own journey with darkness. I've shared a bit during the last ten years but nothing in comparison to what I've written. Only recently have I started to climb back into life and the desire to share my writing.

These days, my writing is varied and inspired by the moment. I participate in two writing group, one where we write to prompts from a book by Judy Reeves called A Writer’s Book of Days: A Spirited Companion and the other where we journey and then write about our experience or about the wisdom gained. Much of this writing is buried in journals in my office. As I move forward, Some of that will be found under Stories, Magic and the Mystical.

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