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By Victoria Polmatier | 10:16 AM PDT, Fri September 20, 2019
Roses in a statue's lap

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Healing looks like
making connections
between the past and
current behavior

Healing looks like
discovering
I'm a people pleaser 
and how pervasive that is

Healing looks like
finding I don't take compliments well
and learning to say thank you
and mean it
take it all in
breathe deep into the discomfort
and say, "yes," I can accept that

Healing looks like
finding my way
to a deeper experience
of loving those around me

Healing looks like
finding my own value
discovering
I have something to offer
into the world

Healing looks like
feeling really connected
to those close to me
coming together as equals
wanting to spend time with them
yearning to feel more
of who they are

Healing looks like
turning the focus
from my own journey
to the world around me
finding footing for engaging

Healing looks like
keeping a place in my heart
for the grief and pain of the past

Healing looks like
being okay 
when the day
turns out differently 
than I had planned

Healing looks like
accepting 
the full range of emotions
that life presents
flowing up and down
in and out
knowing 
I won't get stuck there

Healing feels like
being grown up
finally

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Welcome

I've been writing blogs on the internet since 2007. Like my life, my words have wandered from Wisdom or Life Lessons and Wellness, to Gardening and Aquaponics. After my son’s death by suicide in 2016, Poetry became a big piece of my world as I tried to make sense of the tragedy of his death.

In truth, his death took me into my own journey with darkness. I've shared a bit during the last ten years but nothing in comparison to what I've written. Only recently have I started to climb back into life and the desire to share my writing.

These days, my writing is varied and inspired by the moment. I participate in two writing group, one where we write to prompts from a book by Judy Reeves called A Writer’s Book of Days: A Spirited Companion and the other where we journey and then write about our experience or about the wisdom gained. Much of this writing is buried in journals in my office. As I move forward, Some of that will be found under Stories, Magic and the Mystical.

How do you read this jumble of topics? You can read what’s latest, type a word into Search and see what comes up, or select a Topic from the Blog Content below. However you read, I hope you enjoy.

Blessings, Victoria

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